Actually the chicken stage gives you the sense of freedom, og progress and of moving closer to the final goal.
But then you find out that the chicken stage is just a sad redesign of the leftover stage, of which you had already grown tired at day 2.
The chicken stage is actually very simple. It contains fried chickenbreast, roasted potatoes and a small, almost invisible, amount of vegetables. Served well with ketchup.
But there is so much action at the chicken stage, solutions to the problem begin to show, and the future suddenly seems a little brighter.
It's the realisation of the change of things, and the accept of nothing ever being as it used to.
I was supposed to move in with my brother in a new apartment. I still live at home -so does he.
Wednesday, July 8, 2009
Tuesday, June 9, 2009
Marriage..
Right now I'm watching Dr. Phil (I know! But at the time I use my time in bed, reading ancient history and watching TV, and there is nothing else on?) and I begin to wonder why people even get married?
The show is about people in doubt if they should get married -couples who actually thought on the first day of their honeymoon that they had made a mistake by getting married.
But why marriage? Why have this need to write a contract on relationship? And if you're in doubt if small things as tolerating the mother or father in law should prevent you from getting married, then why do it? Why not just live as you have done so far, it has obviously worked out great. And there is no panic that this has to last forever (because that IS a heck of a long time!).
If you hadn't walked up that isle you wouldn't have these problems of marriage -but you would probably still be together.
One thing is for sure: I'm never going to get married. Ever!
The show is about people in doubt if they should get married -couples who actually thought on the first day of their honeymoon that they had made a mistake by getting married.
But why marriage? Why have this need to write a contract on relationship? And if you're in doubt if small things as tolerating the mother or father in law should prevent you from getting married, then why do it? Why not just live as you have done so far, it has obviously worked out great. And there is no panic that this has to last forever (because that IS a heck of a long time!).
If you hadn't walked up that isle you wouldn't have these problems of marriage -but you would probably still be together.
One thing is for sure: I'm never going to get married. Ever!
Monday, June 8, 2009
Number one / The leftover stage
Picture by missha
I remember it clearly. The time for just a couple of months ago where the only thing I really got to eat was leftovers. And the leftovers' leftovers.
The time when we looked in the fridge, looking for, and chosing the food which hadn't yet started walking by itself.
I call it the leftover stage, and it's the time in a break-up where everything has changed but life still has to be lived as if it hasn't, which at the time also is the only thing completely impossible!
So there you are, the youngest member of the family, 18 years old, preparing for your last examns. Starving.
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